asexual sirens getting real fuckin pissed about all these sailors interrupting choir rehearsal
asexual sailors getting tired of having to rescue other sailors from sirens
they see each other when the ships sail past the rocks and they share a commiserating nod like, “can you believe this shit? every single time.”
i want to kiss you and take cute pictures with you and go on stupid dates but I also want tO DESTRYO YOU AT MAR IO KART
I really don’t mean to be rude, but those tags are a huge over-simplification of Maladaptive Daydreaming? Like, huge huge HUGE.
Speaking from the perspective of someone who has experienced Maladaptive Daydreaming their entire life, that type of self-projection is the absolute bare-bones of the disorder, and is not a universal characteristic among everyone in the community? Maladaptive Daydreaming is a much more intricate and much more involved than just self-projecting yourself in extended daydreams.
It is a disorder after all. Self-projecting in your daydreams is not the only symptom. Hell, it’s not even a key symptom.
Again, I really hope this doesn’t come off as rude, or aggressive. To be fair, I can only speak from the perspective of someone with Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder, and they may be right in that this type of self-projection is a symptom of other mental disorders.
For those who are concerned that they may be Maladaptive Daydreaming (which there seems to be many of, judging by the tags and comments left by other people on that post), or may think that they have MDD, or just want to learn more about it, I’ll post some links:
http://wildminds.ning.com/ (this is a forum, therefore has a lot of people talking about their personal experiences with MDD)
http://www.medicaldaily.com/maladaptive-daydreaming-what-it-247629 (this one has some questionable language, and I’m not really digging it but??)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maladaptive_daydreaming (not the best resource, but probably the simplest link)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwckXK4LcvHTJzQGeBkeeXg (this youtube channel is run by the Big Wig of MDD; the lead researcher, essentially. he has several videos posted about this studies on Maladaptive Daydreaming).
You can find a lot of people talking about their personal experiences with MDD both on Youtube and on Tumblr, as well.
*SLAMS FISTS ON THE TABLE* MORE ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC REPRESENTATION
*KICKS DOWN A DOOR* NO MORE COMPARING ASEXUALS AND/OR AROMANTICS TO FUCKING ROBOTS AND PLANTS
*PUNCHES A HOLE IN THE WALL* ARO/ACE PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS WITH FEELINGS AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH SOME GODDAMN RESPECT
*CLIMBS ON TOP OF THE ROOF AND BEATS CHEST* ARO/ACE PEOPLE FUCKING EXIST
If someone cheats on you they do not love you, remember that. If someone cheats on you they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should only be for you. If someone cheats on you, dear god, I hope you don’t go back to them because you are worth so much more than that.
O d i n // A r r o w
So Heathers the Musical was so great
so so so so great
i can’t even handle how amazing it was
i just love it so much
Well ok Kesha, maybe it’s because you’re an auto tuned peice of shit who shouldn’t be famous, you have no Buisness being in the music industry, it’s not even your music you fuck, someone else wrote it for you to record and them to auto tune yourself. And it’s not at all good . It’s not positive either. So complain some more.
I don’t know if you know this, tumblr user koolkidseatgreens, but Ke$ha is a certified genius. She has an IQ over 140 and an SAT score of 1500. When she was younger she would go to the library and do research for fun. Ke$ha is a both feminist and an advocate for equal marriage/rights for people of any sexuality, being a queer woman herself.
Ke$ha is a smart, professional woman, and just because she sings songs about wanting to let loose and have fun every once in a while doesn’t make her a piece of shit.
Ke$ha’s songs are meant to point out the sexism in our media. She treats men the same way many men in the music industry treat women, and she is hated on for it. Relentlessly. She sings on multiple occasions about taking charge in a sexual relationship, of how she only uses men for their body parts. She sexualizes men to make them uncomfortable. She sexualizes men for a reaction, so that people can both see why women are so uncomfortable with their sexualization and also to point out the inequality between the sexes both in the media and in the world at large.
She is judged so harshly for singing about things that make many men famous.
If you listen to Ke$ha’s deconstructed album you will see that she actually has some talent, which may be hard to hear because she does in fact use a fair amount of autotune. This is because of her genre and because of the kind of music she chooses to create as an artist. Ke$ha may not write her songs, but this doesn’t meant she isn’t a good artist or a good person. This doesn’t mean she deserves your harsh words. Some singers are good at writing, but that’s hardly a requirement. Last time I checked whether or not you can sing has nothing to do with whether or not you’re a poet.
You should not be calling anyone a piece of shit, my friend, especially someone you’ve never sat down and had a conversation (or even taken the time to wonder about her feelings!), but if anyone deserves that kind of language it’s not Ke$ha.
You may think that by shaming women for expressing their sexuality and having fun every once in a while, that you are somehow abolishing sexism. That in weeding out the less ‘deserving’ women you are gaining our sex more respect. This is not the case, and the fact that you and many others feel such a strong need to shame this woman who has done nothing wrong, especially not to you, shows that we still have a very far away to go.
Um I’m just going to add, Ke$ha actually does write her own songs. For example, here’s her first album’s tracklist:
She has also ritten for other artists, probably most famously “‘Till The World Ends” by Britney Spears, which is part of why she’s on the remix of it. She wrote for years and was even the female voice on Flo Rida’s “Right Round” but refused to be credited because she didn’t want her first single to not be her own work. She spent years, starting at the age of 15, writing music before she came out with her album because she wanted to make sure it was all her own and all what she wanted to do.
You can even get all her unreleased music which, combined with her actual albums, is 10.3 hours according to my iTunes playlist. Some artists have been around for twice as long as her and haven’t written that many songs.
Not only have critics proclaimed she could be a country star if she ever leaves the pop music business (which is showcased on her unreleased track “Goodbye”), but she’s actually the daughter of a very talented country songwriter. Her music is actually fairly well praised by the music critics community and if you listened to any of her songs that her record won’t let her release as singles—“Last Goodbye”, “The Harold Song”, “Only Wanna Dance With You”, any of her ballads—she can write multiple styles of songs. She’s just stuck in a box of what she can release and then shallow minded people call her dumb for having fun.
That’s a big fuck you for hating Ke$ha.
When you get shouted at for accidentally doing something bad
some muggleborn like “i want to be an astronaut when i grow up!”
wizard kids like “wtf is an astronaut”
"oh you know…the people who go to the moon"
implying that magical children would know literally nothing outside of the wizarding world